Can you tell your child that he/she probably would have been murdered by their parents' will?

No problem at all.

It wouldn't have been murder since they didn't really exist yet. It would be the same kind of conversation as "I have wondered if your mom was who I should marry, but I'm glad I did because it resulted in you." It wouldn't have been murder to choose not to have a child with their mom either, and the result would have been that this potential person didn't come to be. There are actually an unfathomably large number of things that come together for a particular person to come to be, so all of our lives are really like winning the lottery.

 

It's not that easy. The child is already growing in the mother's womb and will be born in a few months.That will happen, if nobody takes action to kill the fetus or an accident occurs.

So you can't tell anyone that he exists only by your grace, for he would exist even if you died shortly after he was conceived. )

 

Why would you want to tell your child something like that?
would you tell your child that his dad wad a rapist or Grandpa?

 

I certainly wouldn't tell my child his dad was Grandpa.

 

Uncomfortable truths are more painful when someone accidentally learns them, IMHO

 

Easily avoided.

 

Not really, only if you're the only knowing person.

 

If you are the one who makes decisions, yes it is.

 

It could be beneficial for a daughter to know this once they are of the age they will need to be making these decisions. The whole even abortions are not fool proof thing.

 

True, I was assuming that the result of rape or incest would have been RU486ed.

 

I have a relative who was the result of rape. I have to admit is is something I wish I didn't know but at the same time it makes me understand that person better, albeit is a sadder unfixable way.

 

Because that's the way it's done, that's conservatism. We beat the **** out of 'bastards' because it's their fault they were born "out of wedlock"

Guilt, it's what Christianity is all about. The more and more undeserved the better.

 

How is that person different than they would be if they were not for this product?

 

Had that talk with my youngest in January of this year. Went fine. I did not see evidence he sees me or his mother as his potential murderers 21 years ago when he gave my Birthday gift just this last month. It was a bed set with pillows and a comforter. For Father's day I got a copy of his high school graduation certificate in a frame. No evidence then either. I'll have to ask my ex if she's had any blowback for considering an abortion for week or so in 2002

 

It is that easy. If there is no mind and never has been, no actual person has existed. I may call it nearly inevitable I will have a child if I marry a fertile woman, but the loss of said fertile woman wouldn't represent the loss of an actual child. Potential is not the same as actual, just ask the quadrillions of sperm that die every day

 

would you tell a child you got knocked up by someone you met at a bar one night, and they are an accident, many examples of stuff you don't tell children

 

would one tell their children they support forcing rape victims to have their rapists children, and if they were raped, they would do the same to them?

if one would not, why?

these kinda questions are just dumb.... of course you do not tell children these things

 

Does asking morainic questions like this somehow make you feel all warm, fuzzy and special inside?

 

You didn't understand what this thread is about.
I'm not specifically asking what's going on in the crazy, hateful world of abortion advocates.

 

There are no "abortion advocates"....and you just admitted your OP wasn't your real reason for this thread

 

There are, just open your eyes.
How can someone deny that?

It's not the only reason. Other reasons are the common abortion debate and some threads on this board.

You can label abortion as women's rights or human rights, to downplay the issue. But it remains always the same: Killing in advance.

To you, killing a fetus is like crushing an ant or plant. I have a different opinion on this, as you may understand.

 

FoxHastings said: ↑
There are no "abortion advocates"

Easy, there are NO "abortion advocates"...there ARE decent people who believe women should have the same rights YOU and everyone else have.

RIGHTS ARE THE ISSUE.

Try asking yourself a pertinent question: WHY TF would anyone "advocate for abortion" ????

Oh, the little sad face ...

No, to me it's like killing a fetus.

 

Because he/she wants an easy life without responsibility for anybody. Such people aren't able to love their children. Children are a disruptive factor for them. Such people can't have deep or genuine love relationships nor even feel empathy.

Strictly speaking, they are sociopaths. They only love themselves.

Really sad, but true.

 

It is clear that you have an uninformed opinion, heavily tainted with either religious or political bias that prevents you from rational thought and research. What you claim as "True" may indeed be true of a few individuals but quite clearly not for the vast majority. When commenting on such a sensitive and controversial topic it is wise to avoid hyperbole to not be seen as an ignorant troll.

 

FoxHastings said: ↑
Try asking yourself a pertinent question: WHY TF would anyone "advocate for abortion" ????

Even IF that was true of some people it STILL does not answer the question WHY TF would anyone "advocate for abortion" ????
They want the right to an abortion, that doesn't mean they are putting ads on TV encouraging people to get abortions....your "reasoning" is totally absent.

No, it isn't...it's a silly premise with no basis in fact...

So you agree with Islam on the treatment of women???