It sounds like you're working off the assumption that anti-abortionists have any logical reason why they can exercise their rights to free speech against women (who also have that right) and their bodies. Spoiler alert: They don't have any logical reasons and are the first to complain about single mothers being on Public Aid. See, they get to hate and be self-righteous from every angle.
Are you trying to say that having sex is reckless behaviour? Why is that? How is being pro-abortion implying regarding women as clueless?
Imagine if that logic was to be applied to everything else -- "Lol, domestic abuse always happens domestically, if she did not want to be beaten by her husband then why did she even marry him?" or "lol terrorist plane-hijackings only happen on planes, why did they take a flight if they did not want to die?" It is just so remarkably stupid it should not even be commented on. Hey, maybe the fetus consented to be aborted by entering her womb. Afterall, it is only fetuses who get aborted.