There are so many 'rights' or 'mind games' women employ daily that are under appreciated and often not realized that are already listed in the feminists man-hating play book under 'Rules of Engagement' Chapter #1...dealing with male sex partners. Here are the top 4: 1. Always tell him you have a headache when he approaches you for sex. Never tell him the truth that you find him to be disgusting in bed....that he has bad beer breath, that his underarms stink and that his farts are asphyxiating. And never tell him you prefer getting pounded by the mailman instead. 2. Always fake an orgasm, but never tell him that he doesn't have what it takes to excite her enough to reach a full blown orgasm. 3. If he wants a baby, be sure to take the pill or insert that rubber catcher's mitt up there where the sun don't shine just to ensure you won't have to make another trip to your sister's palace over there at Planned Parenthood to get another abortion. 4. If he doesn't want a baby but for some unknown reason you do, for heaven's sake change your mind and for once give in to the man's desires by resorting back to and applying the sound mind game policy listed in #3. Equal rights for women doesn't always mean equal rights for the man, as can clearly be seen in the arena of sexual mind games.
Hmmm, I beginning to think you have been burned and not handling it well. First the Rape thread and now this? Women are the truest form of art.
Nah, nothing like that at all, and in fact I love and adore women who are real women. Where this is a 'Women's Rights' section of the forum, I thought it only natural to give praise and recognition to those staunch supporters of and for Women's Rights--the feminists...who themselves are responsible for many if not all of the salient points that I post here. You see, feminists have been getting a bad rap lately, so I try my best to be a surrogate mouthpiece for them if you will in my attempt to get people to see the more important messages of their platform that have often been badly misconstrued and slandered by the non-feminists out there.
lol, Thanks. I do not know this person and giving the benefit now allows me to judge in the future. Good morning
I strongly identify as a liberal feminist - the branch of the movement which holds that it is possible to achieve equality of the sexes via peaceful participation and agitation within the existing system. The ultimate goal is to destroy patriarchical / male-dominated culture, not replace it with matriarchical / female-dominated culture. In response to the four items brought up in the OP: 1. If a woman does not want to have sex she should not feel pressured to distort the truth in defense of her partner's feelings or perhaps fragile ego; it's possible for her to say "no" yet also make it clear that it is not his or her fault that she is not currently interested in having sex. If one's partner is disgusting in bed, this is something worth discussing tactfully rather than remaining silent about. Partners are not mind readers and often won't know if it's never said. 2. Nobody should have to fake an orgasm. It is not a matter of anyone lacking "what it takes to excite her" so much as it is their technique being inadequate. Better communication is needed, once again. Orgasms are not the only allure for folks to have sex - some gals don't care if they always have them - but either way, it is important to tell a partner what one wants. How will they be fully aware of and responsive to her desires if they don't know what she wants? 3. It is none of a male partner's business to unilaterally decide that he and his partner should bear children. If she does not want to have a kid, she should make this abundantly clear and use contraceptives. If the guy cannot handle that or reach a mutually-agreeable solution with his partner, shouldn't he be looking for somebody else with whom to procreate? 4. And again, it is not the female partner's business to unilaterally decide that she and her partner should bear children. This really isn't rocket science! All of these things seem to hint at relationships lacking healthy measures of trust, openness, and good communication.
*sigh* I find more woman bashing posts in this forum than anything else. If I may speak for the woman species to the men on here that seem so jaded.... I am sorry for that one girl you dated in high school that made you so bitter toward all females. Please know, not all females are alike. Not all of us want to get pregnant just to extort money from you, not all of us have sex so we can cry rape the next day and not all of us are so against men and anythign they try to do for us that we dont appreciate you. Just like men, there are some bad seeds out there. If you arent happy in your relationship and dont feel appreciated... get out of it! Nobody can make you happy except yourself. Trust me, I have my share of horrible dating stories that would make some of you cringe and yet, I still hold out hope for the male species. Have to kiss alot of frogs to find your prince.
