Can people really be asexual?

Look, there is lots of stuff I am not into, Tattoos, Goth, Emo, however, it is not for Me, I think it is great for those that like it. I have never reacted to peoples differences.

Lecture # 30050A, There are people you will meet that are different, some may be in wheelchairs, some may be disfigured, some may have mental problems, do not stare at them, speak to them with respect, do not point at them or treat them badly.

Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

or;

That which is detestable to you, do not to others.

 

I fear you're pitching to someone else here.

This isn't about difference (heck, I'm in a mixed race marriage and have half breed kids, I live in Lesbian Town, surrounded by hippies, anarchists, and all manner of non-standard humanity). It's about demanding the world see you as you deem yourself - but not just seen by the world, also respected by the world. Then when the world doesn't do that (because, here's a scoop, it never has or will), act like spoilt babies, crying "EVIL".

 

You forget all too pat, I never did any of that, I was getting the shat kicked out of Me continually and not because I was open and in anyone's face, to the contrary, I was very thin and pale, and a bit girly and not of my own choice, I kept a very low profile in the World, and when He came into My life, We were truly happy for ten solid years, and that is a lifetime of happiness.

Anyhow, I am not pitching or selling or b-ching either, I feel there are salient facts going ignored here.

 

I am sorry, sexuality is a spectrum and there are exceptions. Psychology is not really much more than observing behavior and recording it. Looking for patterns and learning to cope.

If you want constant variable free results study robots.

Well, the point is humanity and it's behavior is not constant, it shifts and moves all the time. Since your so frustrated maybe this isn't the subject for you.

You'll never understand the subject in the least until you open your mind.

 

Don't tell them that!! LOL!!

AA

 

Moar nonsense, how does it matter how anyone dresses as long as they mind their own business ????
No, that horse poop does not fly, people want an excuse to beat on anyone weaker, or unable to or unwilling to fight back, my parents convinced me not to fight back, so I got thumped good everyday.

One fine October day, Three boys were on a boy, Joseph, two held him, and one was punching him, I had enough, I ran up to the puncher and boxed his ears, then the other two, I punched them each in the mouth, lots O' blood.... Witnesses and all the stories, and they did nothing to me.

After that day, I only had to fight a few times, I was mostly left alone.

 

So, what you are saying is that everyone is bi?

You sound like someone who'd say homosexuality can be cured.

.......Okay...

 

So THATS why I never see any at Cabela's.
Overcompensation is possibly why they amp up the bedroom activities. lol

 

No, what I'm saying is what I said. I didn't say everyone is bi.

I don't understand. Cured? Cured of what?

Well you did ask if I was saying something I didn't say and then you said some incomprehensible nonsense about cures for things like race or sex. I dint think you grasp the concept.

 

since you appear to be unfamiliar with Japanese culture and people, it might interest you to know that western men are sometimes intimidated by the masculinity of Japanese men. those 'little' men excel at sports, are extremely tough (watch some of those insane game shows), and are very comfortable outdoors and in nature. they can make even the toughest white guy look like a (*)(*)(*)(*)(*).

 

It's not nonsense if it elicits a poor response from the broader public. it's fact. I know plenty of people who are uncomfortable with agenderism for that very reason. It whiffs of dishonesty. It may mean any one of a million different things to the a-gender person, which have nothing to do with dishonesty but to the people 'it' deals with, the impression is subterfuge.

if you're asking why we can't treat people as people first, and a gender second, it's because a person's gender is part of our basic caveman recognition programming. you'll need to reinvent the species if you want the world to accommodate a few oddballs.

 

Since you seem to be unfamiliar with a JOKE. I was being silly.

I know what you say is true AND so is my first comment..

 

I have to say....and the reason I know this is I have visited a few Bath Houses in Japan where Geisha's.....and this is expensive as HELL by the way....move around in those ridiculous wooden shoes only to jump in naked with you and wash every single part of your body....and then the men will jump into warm large baths so I KNOW for a fact that Japanese men have quite possibly the smallest penises I have ever seen.

Now I am very well endowed and I could hear quite a few giggles coming from the Geisha's and almost immediately after that quite a few angry grumblings from the Japanese men sitting in the pool sized hot baths with me.

All I can say is it's a good think Japanese women are tiny because...well....you know what I mean.

AA

 

Now see I have spent time there and the number of in really good physical shape Japanese Men is pretty much existing at the same ratio as American men.

You also have to understand that the average Japanese man...in Japan...as Japanese American's are MUCH LARGER...those Japanese men in Japan are tiny.

4 foot 10 inches to MAYBE 5 foot 4 inches.

Their musculature reminds me of that of a 9th grade American High School kid on the wrestling team.

AA

 

And there you prove you are not truthful, you are as bigoted a man as anyone out there, you probably live in a cosmopolitan U.S. city, maybe L.A. but I could be wrong, and you are not as broad minded as you would have people believe.

Personally, I care less how anyone dresses, they can dress as Klingons or Cardacians or whatever, as long as they do not hurt anyone.

I believe in Freedom of expression and dress, even the lack of it, here locally in Oregon, on some days, many people ride bikes Naked, it does not bother me in the slightest.

No, Caveman style philosophy is a load of Dingoes Kidneys, I prefer the more civilized approach to life.

 

I remember I was on stage doing a show in Chicago and I finished with the last encore and went back stage and this very attractive couple came up to me and said...."Great show!! Listen...we are having a really big party at our Penthouse atop...(so and so building).......and we want you to come and we just also wanted to ask you if you are Bi?"

Now I had taken some Spanish in High School but not enough to be Bi....but I didn't want to look stupid so I said..."Yeah...I'm bi..i'm bi!"

The couple got these real big smiles on their faces and they said..."Well that's great because we also have a bunch of S&M people coming over after the show!!"

I said...."Oh great!! Spaniards and Mexicans!!"

So I figured it would be a whole lot of fun doing the whole language cultural thing!

LOL!!

AA

 

Yes, I'd say so. A good friend of mine identifies as being asexual. The way he explained it to me was this: he appreciates the aesthetic beauty of women and seeks the romance/closeness of a relationship, but just does not like sex. I don't think that makes him "broken" in any way, it's a matter of preference. Some people prefer sex with the same gender, some with the opposite, some with both, and some with none. *shrug*

 

He's broken.

No doubt about it.

Whether it be psychological or due to body or brain chemistry something is wrong.

The biological imperative that is reproductive sexual drive in men is without doubt the strongest motivating factor of all of life's actions and reactions and men can still have children up to the day they die.

Something is wrong with your friend.

AA

 

That reminds me of that television show Monk......

 

I love MONK!!!

Yeah....he loved sex just as much as anyone but his phobias and death of his wife were too much for him to have a meaningful relationship or even have sex.

A person especially a GUY.....who say's their Asexual....they got a problem.

AA

 

So he's an awkward virgin?

Or has he simply only ever had really bad sex? Even then, men being slaves to their sex drives, even bad sex is considerably better than no sex.

My guess is he has issues. Maybe he has a micro-penis - these do exist. That would be a reason he'd avoid sex for sure. Or even just a very small penis - smaller than average small, as it were. A tiny noodle might see the hipster child search for a cool sounding excuse.

 

I was at a small party not long ago, and it was mostly a younger crowd, early 20's, and a young lady recalled this guy that called
himself "Star Child" and she said she found him really nice and wanted to be with him, so when they were ready, she said he had a very tiny member, the guy was 19, yet his member was small, she held up her first digit and covered most of it with her thumb to illustrate how puny he was, and that was erect !! By that time she says she was on the floor laughing, the guy quickly got dressed and left.

 

Yes ... a stupid name is sure to compensate for the teeny johnson 😒

 

DAMN!!!

I don't know what would be worse...to be like him or getting laughed at like that!! LOL!!

AA

 

My buddy had this really funny thing he did to pick up girls.

Now he wasn't small down there but he would hold up his hand and stick out his pinky and say...."Baby....this will be the time of your life!!" LOL!!

And the funny thing was it always worked as a girl would take him home just to see if he was serious or not!! LOL!!

AA