Do you approve sex before marriage?

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Do you approve sex before ( outside of ) marriage?

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  2. No

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  3. I dunno

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  1. Ostap Bender

    Ostap Bender Well-Known Member

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    According to the leftist-liberal "moral" sex before marriage is fine,liberal "teachers" indoctrinate students to have sex ( at best homosexual ) before marriage, the more the better. The liberal mainstream medias promote sex before and outside of wedding non-stop 24/7. But what the Holy Bible says about, is there not a conflict between the liberal "moral" and Commandments of God.Also, do you agree with the Holy Bible or share the liberal point of view, please vote and explain.

    Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.

    1 Corinthians 6:18 KJV

    Let marriage be held in honor by all, and the bed undefiled: but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.

    Hebrews 13:4


    10 Reasons Not to Have Sex Outside of Marriage

    http://christianity.about.com/od/whatdoesthebiblesay/a/sexandthebible.htm

    Question: "What does the Bible say about sex before marriage?"


    http://www.gotquestions.org/sex-before-marriage.html
     
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    No.

    Not only did it wrong in the Bible standard. It develops a social problem of child out of weblock, single mothers or singles fathers to raise the kids.
     
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    So... you should only have sex if you're married, but we shouldn't allow gays to marry? Seems like a bit of a catch-22 to me.​

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    Only if one is dumb enough to not use birth control!
    I absolutely approve of sex before marriage. . .although I do not approve of casual sex.

    I think it is ludicrous to expect too people to commit to a lifelong relationship without knowing whether or not they are sexually compatible.

    That doesn't mean that one should jump into bed with a "first date," but when a couple has decided that they really do care for each other enough to consider committing to spending their life together and having children. . . OBVIOUSLY it is stupid to leave sexual compatibility out of the equation!

    And, if one is not smart and responsible enough to use birth control. . .one is probably not smart or responsible enough to marry anyway!
     
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    Wolverine New Member Past Donor

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    Casual sex? No. Just no.

    Committed relationship? Absolutely.
     
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    But if the thing is true, that evidence of virginity was not found in the young woman, then they shall bring out the young woman to the door of her father’s house, and the men of her city shall stone her to death with stones, because she has done an outrageous thing in Israel by whoring in her father’s house. So you shall purge the evil from your midst.
     
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    I agree.
     
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    Durandal Well-Known Member Donor

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    Troll post.
     
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    Difference? None.
     
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    Wolverine New Member Past Donor

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    Um..... I suppose when I think of causal sex I am thinking of a friends with benefits type of situation versus a committed relationship.

    There is a difference.
     
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    I hope you offer this as a big, huge joke!

    It was sick then, it is triple sick now!
     
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    Lots of differences!

    In casual sex, one may decide to have sex as a one night stand, or just "for fun."

    In a committed relationship, having sex is just a way to get closer and to know each other more intimately. . .it is also a way to know if that committed relationship has a good chance to become a successful marriage relationship, give birth to children, etc. . .
     
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    In the eye of the beholder, I suppose. The act is the same, the circumstances different. But by what criteria should one be condemned and the other praised?
     
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    I should think that casual sex makes people more intimate as well. But anyway, so what? Why can't people have one-night-stands if they want to? The only thing I'd question is having a one-night-stand with someone under false pretenses, lying to them about your intentions and such. Be open about it, and if both are in agreement, that's their own affair.
     
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    Why should I give a flying (*)(*)(*)(*) what some fiction book says?
     
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    I use my own criteria. I don't condemn those who have casual sex to eternal punishment (I am not arrogant enough) but I do see issues with it. I had already gone through one f/b thing and never plan to return. I would rather go without and hold out for greater intimancey. I think its well worth holding out.

    The act isn't the same, one is for fun and the other is deeply felt affection.

    Listen to Tool's Parabol/Parabola.
     
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    There is nothing at all wrong with sex before marriage if two people are in a committed relationship.
     
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    This is pretty much where I stand as well.. Though even if it's casual sex (I've never done that, personally), well, to each their own. Not everyone is into commitment. I'd only urge being responsible where STDs and pregnancies are concerned, but we have parents and sex ed for that anyway.
     
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    Who are we talking about here Children or Adults?

    Also, when is "before," is there a time-table you have in mind for when marriage happens?

    Further more, are we assuming marriage is an optional or mandatory part of existence?

    Finally, what happens if marriage is impossible because of the gender of the participants, or the politics of the family?
     
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    Why is it wrong if they're not?
     
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    I would really love to see a link to anything that backs up your claim that "liberal teachers indoctrinate students to have sex". I have a feeling you are making that up. And please, no link to a religious site because bias would be unacceptable.
     
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    As well-known God created Adam and Eva, not Adam and Steve.The purpose of marriage is producing of children, not perverse "sex".

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    *shrug* Your purpose maybe. Most folks who marry usually mention other reasons and objectives in their vows.​
     
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    So you are saying that men named Steve are an abomination?

    I thought god creates everyone?

    Di you just contradict yourself?
     
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    I guess we better outlaw marriage for anyone who isn't fertile then..lol.

    So yes, this liberal believes in sex before marriage- more importantly I think that individuals should make that decision for themselves- that consenting adults should make such decisions.

    Yes, I had sex before I got married. With several women.
    Then I married a woman who also had had sex before being married, with several men.

    Still going strong more than 20 years later.

    What was your point again?
     
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