Do you think a 15 year-old girl should be able to get married?

Save the BS. You are an unpleasant little man who tried to form a pack for the supposed crime of having a relationship with another Adult person . ChrisL made some very umpleasant comments and you both accused me of lying and made the abusrd comment that the photo I posted was a drawing. Indeed you make the opposite comment (but being a political extremists you wont have a problem with that ) you say shes using me and Chjris L says I am using her.....

Ridiculous

 

An animation is by defintion a moving image.

As I said I have no idea not having any Children but its not about her parents.

Would she know what she was doing with a younger partner?

You really are nasty. I was married a long time. I know exactly what love is. Will I marry her? I am certainly considering it.

And she cant marry me because......?

I could have children at any time. I am not adverse to it.

 

I'm done with this conversation. Reading is a skill that certain people just don't seem to possess.

BTW.....I'm 6'4" so not a little man.

 

Because you are TOO old . . . don't you get that? You are more than twice her age. You'll be a very old man while she and her/your children are still fairly young. It's extremely selfish and obviously, you are only thinking of yourself.

You're taking advantage of basically a CHILD, and I find it disgusting in many ways. If you really cared about this girl, you wouldn't be having a relationship with her like you are. It's rotten.

Don't even tell me that "she isn't a child." Everything you've said about her screams "child." She throws temper tantrums and is demanding. She likes to dress up like an animal or a teddy bear, whatever, she wants to go to amusement parks.

 

I find your constant insults disgusting, She is an adult not basically a child at all. Indeed your country even has a system where you try real children as adults ffs.

I'm in the TV production business. We all like dressing up. I like amusement parks too. The rotten person is you because you cant stand the competition. Thats what this is about. You are a nasty souled person who hates people that dont conform to the norm

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Maybe not little in stature. Certainly in mental capacity

If you are done then just go away. No need to announce it.

 

If a 14 year old girl can give consent to an abortion then why not marriage?

 

Because it's effing idiotic, that's why.

 

So she should just keep her legs closed and not have sex, is that what you're trying to say?

 

NO, he should keep his dick in his pants.

 

So you agree with me a minor child should not be able to consent to an abortion.

 

Do you know the difference between pregnancy, marriage and abortion? Abortion is relieving yourself of a responsibility that you are not ready for, for whatever reason.

I highly doubt that I would agree with you on anything.

Also, maybe you are unaware of the fact that pregnancy can be dangerous for teens because their insides are not yet fully developed to carry a fetus in a lot of instances. That is why almost all teen pregnancies are considered "high risk" and the reason why they have to have multiple ultrasounds, etc.

And because they are young and immature, that is the reason why they are most often SINGLE mothers.

 

As a Muslim this is fine. Our prophet married a 7 year old:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Aisha

 

You are too OLD for that little girl. End of story.

 

Of course, now can you answer the question?

If a minor child can consent to an abortion, is mature enough to make the decision to kill her baby, then why not consent to a marriage?

Can 't come with one reason can you.

 

No, making the decision to avoid responsibility versus making the decision to have a child or be married? Are you serious?

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I think any 14-year-old child who is pregnant should probably and would be better off having an abortion.

Also, the man (because it's probably most often MEN), who impregnated the child should be hunted down and be brought up on felony child molestation charges.

 

What does a committed relationship mean and entail?

 

If you don't know, then you are too young to be involved in one.

 

I mean, I can guess at it. Some of it would involve not being able to do as you please because you have to take your partner into account, but that's a really minor sacrifice for most 15 year-olds anyway, because the majority don't have definite life plans that could be interrupted by a relationship.

Rest of it's really dependent on context. Not every partner expects their spouse to bring money in.

 

Yes, you really don't seem to understand what an adult intimate relationship entails . . .

 

Do you mean sex? Kids? What?

Seriously, if you explained it I'd probably get what you mean, but you're really being vague.

 

It involves all kinds of things, all kinds of sacrifices, understanding your partner, having empathy for him or her, unconditional love, and all kinds of things. The fact that this needs to be explained is reason enough for you to not consider being married. Why? Are you a 15-year-old girl who is contemplating getting married?

Edit: Let's also not forget that marriage is a LIFE LONG commitment. Unless you have an open marriage, that means no other guys EVER.

 

Let's also not forget that you have to put up with all of your partner's habits (that's especially the BAD habits - everyone has them).

Being the woman in the relationship, it is more than likely that you will be responsible for cleaning up after him, doing all the dishes and laundry (with occasional "help" perhaps - if that's what you would call it when he comes in and messes up your system of doing things). His stinky socks, his annoying habits, his ugly things, tracking dirt into the house.

Now, all of this might sound menial, but let me tell you, when you live with a person for any amount of time, these kinds of things begin to get to you after a while. A marriage is like a full time job, and then once you add some kids into the mix . . . well, you are now kind of stuck in that lifestyle. You really don't get to change your mind. If you see a cuter guy or meet another guy that you really like, that is too bad. This is just one reason why it is important to wait until you are in your 20s and have your own life and goals squared away.

There is absolutely no need to rush into a marriage. It benefits nobody.

 

Well, if the girl can just go get an abortion then a marriage doesn't have to carry any responsibilities at all. So why are you against teen marriage again? You don't seem to have a problem with them having sex and getting abortions.

 

I have a problem with all of those things. Why would you say that I don't? However, we cannot enforce laws against "sex" unless somebody says something or finds out. Abortions for teenagers are therapeutic and saves them a world of misery. Laws regarding marriage are enforceable.

You see, I like to think in terms of "what is realistic?" Is it realistic that we can really "enforce" laws about sex? Not likely. Most of the time, sex is done in private without witnesses. It is not very enforceable. I support laws regarding sex because of the possible deterrent purposes and for punishment purposes.

I don't think teenagers should be parents. I was a teen parent, and I am very familiar with how difficult it was/is. It is too much to expect from a teen who doesn't even really know who she is yet or what she really wants out of life. A lot of teens (most) are confused children. There are exceptions to that, but they are not the norm. The notion of "teen angst" and "finding yourself" and other such things are not "made up."

Realistically though, we can control who does and does not get married. We should never encourage 15-year-old children to get married. It is one of the MOST stupid things I've ever heard.

 

Are you saying that marriage doesn't come with responsibilities of its own? Good God!