For The Anti Homosexual Members

Then you should try out the Cheesecake Factory. They share your motto (but your waiter will probably be gay).

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I respect women for their mind

 

Ummm Did I ask you a question? lol

 

LOL

It is legal, and it is equal. Doesn't hurt at all, but I accept your apology anyway.... lol

 

I don't mind. Maybe he'll think I'm sexy and give me a discount?

 

No, not equal. It does something for you but for society, humanity and a nation it is not healthy. Children are too important.

 

Neither is letting fat people marry but that is legal too. LOL

 

They can adopt. There are countless numbers of kids that need to be adopted out there. I also don't think the "gayness" will "wear off" on the kids either since I don't think it was a random choice to just like the other side all of a sudden. That would mean you could make the choice to like guys, just up and find them hot and sexy. Do you think it's really that easy? I guess you do....

 

Probably. I hear they have gaydar

 

that's the thing, it's always "what if" because there is ZERO medical proof that one is "born homosexual"

Nobody is looking to deny anyone from having as much gay sex as they want. If we as a society wish to grant protected status to a particular group, then that group should be able to prove that they qualify for the protected status. Given that homosexual is just a sex act, there is no way to prove that one is homosexual unless you follow them into the bedroom so in other words, anyone can cite that they are homosexual and thus protected.

We've seen a CEO of Mozilla be forced out because he beleives in traditional marriage. We've seen a baker pay in excess of $140,000 because they can refused to place homsoexual themed decorations upon a cake.

In other words, suspend the 1st Amendment rights from some in order to provide preferential treatment to others

That is the cold, sad reality of "gay rights"

 

Can you remember anything that might have swayed you or do you think you were born with that proclivity? Or maybe a combination of the two?

 

I'm a lesbian in a mans body. If they can sense that.... (if I have a gay waitress), that would be fantastic.

 

Adopting doesn't cut it when you are talking about a strong healthy sustaining society. Nope...we need accidents. We need children that come at the right time, and the wrong time. We need a man's sperm to meet a woman's egg. Otherwise our society would fizzle away.

 

Homosexual or heterosexual? Some people are perfectly healthy even with a layer of fat. You have something against fat people?

 

Ya, this I'm aware of. However, again, this is only from a few select (*)(*)(*)(*)(*)(*)(*)s that even most of the gay community thinks are stupid. We have all, ALL of us, let our country become what it has this day and age. Anyone can sue anyone for the stupidest of reasons, and win. We have let this pussiffied mentality run wild. Prisons are friggen hotels now, kids can't be spanked.... society is going down the (*)(*)(*)(*)ter in general.

 

Letting them marry is not healthy for society, humanity and the nation

 

Sure it is. Babies are important...even from heavy people. The most fit gay couple will die and leave nothing. Unless they turn heterosexual for a brief time.

 

Big fat kids that will grow up and clog the ER. I guess you care very little about "health"

 

Homosexuals produce nothing. I will take fat babies over that. Nothing produces a pretty ominous future.

 

Tell that to the guy who runs Apple. LOL

 

Prisons are hotels?

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Turn heterosexual for a brief time? How naïve.

 

That's a stupid comment; really.

Just because you weren't "born" when something happened, does NOT mean you will/should escape the legacy effects of acts that came before.

We may not be responsible for the things that came before, but we ARE responsible for dealing with the effects which are manifested as a result of what came before.

Racism, hatred, bigotry, greed etc. (... the list is long...) even so, ignoring or trying to pass the problems (legacy effects of actions taken) off to another, is essentially like contributing to the same. Mistreatment of LGBT human beings, goes on that list too.

 

Fat used to be the standard for beauty because it reflected abundance which translates into human survival. Today, because of libbie-Euro influence, we worship would have been described in the past as anorexia.

 

Well that is a difficult question to answer. But I'll take a stab at it. I don't really recall anything swaying me toward homosexuality. Quite the contrary. I grew up watching Disney movies with parents that stayed married (and still are to this day) the Prince always got his princesses. That's what I wanted. I found my true attraction a bit disturbing to be honest. I was brought up in a blend between the protestant and Catholic church. So I never was really told about gay people and I never really thought about it. The carnal feelings I was having toward my sex was unsettling. But I kept it to myself. I was embarrassed about it. But being swayed, I would have loved to have been because I likely would have figured out how to sway back.

It didn't really have a genesis that I can recall.

As far as if I think I was born this way, well I don't really know. I have read research that suggests that it could be, but from my experience alone, I don't know. These thoughts came into being as I became an adolescent.

Strangely enough I never felt different, as I said I was comfortable with make friends. I liked masculine things. I played with trucks, I was a jock. I played soccer until I was older and got into swimming.

I figured if I was more feminine I'd have hung out with more girls, sharing interests and what not.

So no I can't really pin point anything that I would think would have made me gay.

So I have no real idea if I was born this way. To me personally I can't see it making much difference whether I was or not. So to be honest I don't think about it.

Honestly the first time I did was when I came out to friends, (I was in my twenties). They asked me when this happened, I was taken aback because to me this always was. I had to try not to be hurt by that. I had to remind myself they never knew.

That may have been too much info, but it's really a question I thought about, I actually saw therapists about it. Alas a simple answer would have been incomplete.

 

My lover and I have discussed having children. We did take in a young man but he was eleven when he came to us and he it's thinking about college. We've researched it and there it's no need to turn straight for any bit of time.

 

That is very interesting. Would it be correct to say that you knew the basic framework (Heterosexuality) because of your parents and everything you saw around you and maybe even assumed the 'urge' would come however, the 'urge' went in the other direction?