George Zimmerman's Girlfriend Wants to Drop Charges, 'Be With Him'

We all know that. . .but he has been CHARGED at least 3 times. . .

Can you show ANY charges against Martin? Go for it!

 

Do you think the only indication of trouble is a charge by the police? What about 3 school suspensions? What about the jewels he had in his possession and refused to give up where he got them? What about writing WTF in a school? How many examples is one to list that indicate he was in trouble? Is it troubling he called himself a no limit n word as his twitter handle? Where the pictures of a gun on his twice password protected phone an indication of trouble? Are those anything to fear if our children start exhibiting any of those characteristics, or is it just when there is a charge from the police does it become legit concerning?

 

I had brought that up several times, TM's parents ignoring the obvious signs of having a troubled teen on their hands. He was on his 3rd school suspension, had questionable women's jewelry in his backpack, etc - you'd think that bells & whistles would be blaring in his parents heads that there was a problem - but nope! he was still allowed freedom to wander around at nighttime and his supporters totally ignored these facts - it's called tunnel vision.

They don't have the ability or the smarts to look at the whole pix of Trayvon's life and how dysfunctional it was for him, which wasn't his fault. Kids are going to do what they're allowed to do... it all goes back to the parents and what they are doing or not doing to get their kid back on the right track ....... but for some reason, the TM supporters, some who are parents themselves, don't seem to understand this concept of parenting, that they had a responsibility to rein him in and teach him there were consequences for his bad behavior...... that just floats right over their head ......strange.

If that had been my son, just his physical appearance alone in trying to look and act like a street thug would have scared the hell out of me and believe me, he wouldn't have gotten as far as Trayvon was allowed to go w/his thuggery image...... no way - not anymore than my 2 teen daughters would have been allowed to dress in skimpy, revealing clothes.

Oh well! We're all different..... even us parents - some wear blinders when it comes to their kids and some do not......

 

Just like you thought DeeDee being on the phone with thug Martin was good evidence.

 

I would think that at least 50% of teenager go through this kind of "trouble" at least one in their high school career. . .those who do have a high school career long enough to do that, obviously!

NONE of what you are babbling about lead to any charges, and neither should it have! And you'll be lucky if that is all your child "start exhibiting" when she reaches puberty!

As you so gladly expressed many times about Zimmerman. . .one IS presumed innocent until proven guilty. . .and, obviously, without CHARGES, there will NEVER be a proof of guilt! Duh!

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Back plugging on your "obsession?

So funny!

 

Not at all. I read RosePop's post and wonder again - "what the hell was daddy Martin thinking of? His son's 3rd school suspension & questionable women's jewelry found in his possession and he gives him his freedom to do whatever....

I noticed you'd rather cackle about my posting here rather than what I had talked about when it comes to parents and their troubled teens....

"Boys will be boys" isn't such a brilliant motto to raise your teenage son by who's hell bent for trouble, Sadamie........

But then that's just me......

 

I never claimed Martin was charged with anything.

 

I know, right? Suspended kids shouldn't be allowed to buy candy. I mean.. that's just insane!

 

I know I saw this coming. Battered women, whether emotionally, physically, or both, often go running back to their abusers. They get mad enough to file the charges, then realize their man could go to jail and they would be all alone (part of the mental abuse is making them fear being alone), so they do whatever they can to get the charges dropped. Typical.

 

Or perhaps she was having a fight with him ( most couples do) called 911 hysterically and over reacted and now regrets it. Who knows. All we know is she doesnt want charges pressed.

 

Smashing her glass table and barricading himself in HER house is a bit weird.

 

Sure but couples dont act rational when fighting. Pretty simple concept. Things are said and done you soon regret.

 

Well... if they are adults they act rational.

 

Probably not politically motivated, but maybe the gun lobby came up with some money for Zimmy to buy the girl off.

But I'm surprised you're willing to believe this girl. Didn't you call her a gold digger after money?...but now, when she says something you want to believe.......

 

One person suggests couples fighting act rationally and now we have the Conspiracy theory.... Guys will come up with anything.

 

Adults can fight and negotiate without acting out....

 

Considering the divorce rate in this country i would suggest that somehow you evolved past most of humanity Margot you are truly blessed.

 

She did not have to tell me that she was going to want charges dropped, I called that WEEKS ago.

 

God Almighty..... no wonder these kids are so screwed up now w/attitudes alike yours. I bet you were one of these daddies who wanted to be your son's best friend instead of being a father to him.

Yes, so what if Martin was on his 3rd school suspension, women's jewelry was found in his backpack w/no explanation along w/pot residue....... yeah, what's the big deal?! Martin was just a 'child' wanting to have fun and freedom after he was kicked out for the 3rd time and his father obliged him.

Let's not upset the kid by grounding him and taking away all privileges and trying to get to the root of his consistent bad behavior - after all, that might effect the kid's self-esteem and that would be cruel, right?

 

Not all divorces are about "acting out"..

I learned by the time I was 32 that relationship was a daily choice and all about negotiations.. not tantrums.

 

Are you talking about robots or human beings?

 

I am talking about human beings who don't chit in their own nests.

 

And some do. Sometimes those relationships are irreparable, some can be saved... all depends upon the couple and their circumstances.

 

Of course some couples should separate, but they don't have to act out like maniacs. Relationship is about passion (usually) friendship, partnership, negotiation and respect.

 

Yes, I understand that and I agree and wouldn't it bejust wunnerful if no one ever acted like a maniac when they're upset, hurt, angry.... whatever emotion they're feeling and what their circumstances are and we're talking abut human beings here dealing w/human emotions......

Tempers will fly, words are said that's often regretted later, but the bottom line is what the couple does to repair and improve their marriage/relationship and for most, it's a learning process that takes time.

There's nothing cut and dried about any relationship. It always takes a lot of effort from both to keep it healthy.........