How many sexual partners have you had?

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  1. Ritter

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    You take them to 5 star restaurants the first date or what? Nothing screams desperate like that. :p
     
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    :eekeyes: Waitaminute. What was that? You Pay?

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    Don't do that!

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    Just one for me. I married my high school sweetheart 28 years ago. I am her only one too.
     
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    HereWeGoAgain Banned

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    I've spent a small fortune since divorcing. Lots of great sex with lots of beautiful women.

    I now wonder why I once spent so much money on other crap. I poured money into my property for decades and got very little for it except a bunch of hard work to do. I also gave my ex wife the rest of my money and wasn't even getting laid.

    Not a hard choice if you ask me. From my pov, my real life started the day my ex and I split. Unfortunately, by then I had wasted half my life. Now it's a race to get as much out of life as I can before I can't.
     
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    HereWeGoAgain Banned

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    I hope that wasn't for hookers!!! For a regular date, $250 is reasonable. For hookers, I would hope you were paying at least five times as much LOL!!!

    You all missed the best solution: Sugar babies! It's completely legal, far more personal, far more rewarding, and a lot cheaper than hookers.

    That's why Trump married his.
     
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    I don't know ... 20 approximately. Utterly pointless. If I had it to do over again, I'd go to pros.
     
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    Thank's man it will happen soon.

    Thankfully I am running the show so I am going to make sure none of ur people get hurt.

    I have a plethora of new toys as my disposal.

    The only thing that is driving me crazy is I am in a waiting pattern.

    But your a good guy and I thank you.

    AA
     
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    I am looking at it as far as what he has accomplished.

    I can tell you this.....Trump understands we do not TELEGRAPH what we are about to do like Obama did.

    That used to drive us crazy and cost lives.

    AA
     
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    How much did they charge you?

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    I tried living in a sexless marriage for over ten years. I thought I could live without sex. I thought I could just bury myself in my work.

    But without sex I slowly lost the will to live. And it was only after I finally got laid again that I understood this. Sex affects us deeply and profoundly - some of us far more than others. And it isn't a surprise when you think about it. It is not just sex. It is touch, and smells, and caressing, gentleness, pillow talk - communing with another human being. I found it is possible to have true intimacy even with escorts. But many people object to that idea [most of which never saw an escort]..

    With my first sugar baby, I was more in love than I thought possible.

    But long ago on a very lonely night, I decided to commit suicide - the night I couldn't remember when I was last hugged. It wasn't just the sex. It was the loss of human contact that was killing me. Sex gives us that and so much more. For the first year, each sexual encounter was a spiritual experience. No sht! It really was. In fact this is part of what attracted my first sb to me. She said she could feel the sexual energy when she walked into the room.
     
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    I just want to be happy with my soulmate.

    AA
     
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    The last thing in the world I have ever cared about was having arm candy. I was with the most beautiful woman I had ever known, for three years. Any man would strut with that breath of heaven on his arm. But I would have been perfectly happy if we never left the house. As long as I was with her, I had everything I needed. I was in heaven every moment we were together.

    Arm candy is for egos. Sex and beauty are for the soul.

    I had a few ego-serving moments to be sure, but not by design.
     
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    Good luck. Been there done that. Some people get lucky. I didn't. My soulmate turned into my worst nightmare. 25 years of my life wasted.
     
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    I had to wait a really long time till I fund my soulmate after one fiancee dying tragically in my arms and the other leaving me because of my JOB.

    I have a soulmate now.......I am not letting her go.

    AA
     
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    What inflation pressure do you use?
     
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    Then she really wasn't your soulmate.

    And I understand loss upon levels you could not imagine.

    AA....p.s.....I really wish you luck.
     
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    On which tires?

    My 2015 Vette?

    My antique 1990 Mustang GT Convertible in MINT CONDITION?

    My 1969 Firebird Convertible?

    My assortment of pickup trucks?

    My several riding lawnmowers all John Deer?

    Plus quite a few others as I collect cars and trucks.

    I own a Dodge Convertible Pickup Truck factory made only 32 left on the planet that one takes 45 psi per tire?

    AA
     
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    They're all inflatables with multiple orifices?
     
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    I now try to be happy today and don't worry about forever. Tomorrow may never come, much less forever.
    Thanks, but it wasn't loss. It was the death of the soul. The loss of the will to live, not the loss of love. It was the loss of sex that was killing me. Believe it or not, I found that when it comes to life and death, sex is more important than love. I could live without love, but the loss of sex was the thief in the night. It slowly sucks the life out of you without you even knowing.

    Youth is wasted on the young. Interestingly, she had everyone fooled except my grandmother. My grandmother saw it early on but even my mother was duped.

    I now do what makes me happy today and don't worry about forever. Living in the moment was the key. I'v'e known more happiness since divorcing than during my entire life before that.

    I didn't know it was possible to be as happy as my first sb made me. Since then, I've had a lot of fun, met a few women who seemed promising but didn't quite work out, and am now seeing a beautiful young lady who seems most promising. We have a lot of fun and great chemistry both in and out of bed. I don't know if I will fall madly in love with her but she makes me happy. And I could fall in love. It's possible. I am hoping this could last for several years. This is consistent with her plans so it might work.

    Of course the key for me is that I always have to be willing to let go. That is price of youth and beauty - seeing women who would normally be out of my league, and far too young.
     
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    Steel Belted with one fill up nozzle,

    AA
     
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    Well I wish you both good luck.

    AA
     
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    I admit I love sex and my body especially tuned for it and endowed for it but I could always get sex....LOVE is something I could not do without.

    Now maybe this is because I am not some middle aged man in a Mid-Life Crisis as there really is nothing I have regrets about like other men who try to pressure their wife's of over 25 years into having a 3 some with another woman involved because such things for me are been there done that and really the only thing I have never done nor would never do given my way over the top AboveAlpha nature would be to have sex with a man.

    So basically for me LOVE is what I need the most.

    But I cannot deny I am extremely sexual and more than that I am very good at it in ways and upon levels most women will unfortunately NEVER experience in their lifetimes.

    And Sexual Role Play really is a good way to add spark to a long time marriage or relationship.

    But everyone MUST be comfortable with this as I would NEVER pressure anyone to do something they really don't want to do.

    I might be the end all to end all gasoline for blood and depleted Uranium wrapped in Tungsten Steel encased in orbital re-entry ceramic baddest ass Alpha Male on Planet Earth and those who doubt this can just talk to my sparing partner UFC or Ultimate Fighting Champion Gabriel Gonzaga who I and I alone get to call him Gabby....as he trained at a place called Team Link based in Western Massachusetts in Brazilian Jiu Jitsu and trained there for the UFC Title which he won.....as I met him at Team Link picking up a check for a Charity I run and as the guys at Team Link know what I am and what I am capable of we had a friendly match over a $200 Charity Donation WHICH GABBY LOST as I am expert in various forms of combat and martial arts...well besides all that....

    .....all I really want to do is finish this JOB and go snuggle up with my soulmate eating popcorn and watching a movie.

    AA
     
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    I could have cheated many times. I chose not to.

    I'm not saying I don't want love in my life. I am saying, what stopped me from committing suicide was the desire for sex. And what gave me the will to live again was having an active sex life. It is a powerful drive. When I was holding a gun to my head and trying to pull the trigger, there is no doubt in my mind that nothing else could have stopped me. But I suddenly thought of having sex with young hot women and decided there WAS a reason to get up tomorrow.

    Now I don't know if my wife ever really did love me or just the idea of me. But love alone is not a substitute for sex. We need touch and intimacy. It is fundamental.

    And women need to stop punishing men for this. We are what we are.

    This is probably the single biggest reason I enjoy the company of younger women so much. They are far more accepting of men. They understand our sexuality far more than women I've known who are my age - esp my ex wife! It is a different world. Also, women who go the sugar baby route typically have a sex drive like that of a man. They enjoy sex for the sake of sex and can separate the emotional side from the physical side.
     
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    I came to terms with ending things a while back and that is because I have a soulmate.

    AA
     

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