How many sexual partners have you had?

Actually, you need to stop projecting your male-sexuality on women. Women are women and they are different from us.

Young women do not realise that one day, their status of godessness will die out and this will make them desperate because their womb is going dry and they are still childless at age 40 because they used their peak to fool around.

 

Furthermore, it is hard to seperate emotion from sex because sex excretes dopamine, oxytocine and all kinds of happy-chemicals in our brain (even more so for women, I believe). This is why many end up in love with their f-buddy and why it is a good idea only to sleep with someone you truly love as it will strengthen the emotional side of the relationship.

 

Actually it doesn't. At size 11, they match up, but other than that they don't.

http://shoes.about.com/od/fitcomfort/a/men_inches.htm

 

Over twenty, under thirty (I am at the start of my 50s and it's getting harder remembering them all).

Typically, I go out with a woman for like 5 years, then live a period of relational instability, more or less for a year or two, then I repeat the cycle. No children (that I know of) so far.

I fear I am not the kind of man that will ever settle down.

 

Got the makins of a country song there, pardner. What's your second line?

 

Some inspiration for your muse ....

Ramblin' Fever https://g.co/kgs/SVLGnQ

 

Real or imagined? I haven't had that many real ones...but I have a great imagination. I have been faithful to my wife for 40 years.

 

I am telling you what they have told me on many occasions. And we have talked about this at length This is perhaps one of the most distinctive characteristics of women who work as escorts and SBs.

That is why they are fine with what they do and other women can't even imagine it. That is why women who can't separate sex from emotions often assume these women must be victims of some kind - you know, the women who paid cash for their new home.

Many women I've met have already decided against marriage and or children. But it's not like I'm recruiting anyone. In fact my newest sb [whom I really like] first contacted me.

Funny, she indicated that she wants to do a threesome with another women but she never had the nerve. And we talked about doing one soon, Last night I mentioned it again and said I know a couple of women who might be game. When she realized I was serious and we can do this in a week or two, she got all hot and squirmy. She got noticeably aroused just thinking about it.

One of the biggest surprises in this for me is how many women have an unfulfilled fetish just beneath the surface. I asked one young lady if she had any fetishes and she almost jumped off the couch - Yeah! Ropes!!! She had been just waiting for someone to ask. She had never been tied up.

 

You know I have my Soulmate now but playing in a band that put out 4 albums and playing Internationally opening up for bands like Aerosmith, Motley Crue, Black Sabbath, Tool, Staind, Heart, Robin Trower,...etc...etc...etc.....had me running into every kind of woman that was out there.

Now there is or was a place in Connecticut called the STING and it could hold maybe 3 thousand people and right next door was a STRIP CLUB called Molly Malone's and the Band Dressing Room had an entire WALL OF ONE WAY GLASS so we could watch the strippers pole dancing as well as changing into different outfits in their back room.

Now I love music and playing but the whole reason I even got into a band was because I was ordered to as one of the few ways to get into East Berlin back in 1983 was a CULTURAL EXCHANGE thus they sent a CIRCUS and we sent a ROCK BAND....mine.

And YES for those who ask nice I will send you some songs where I sing and play one of several guitars just remember this was the 1980's and this was hard rock.

Anyways.....at that time being a very in shape, wealthy, highly educated well at least at that time earning my degrees plural....6 foot 2 inch tall and back then maybe only 190 to 200 lbs as I am 249 lbs of solid muscle right now......and being told I am good looking and I am well endowed in the extreme YOU reminded me that after a show the Strip Club Girls would LINE UP to meet us in the band and each one had SOME TRICK OF KINK that they had studied gotten good at and used it to be able to stand out from the rest of the girls.

Nowadays I am only interested in my soulmate as 3 somes 4 somes 5 somes 6 somes 7 somes...etc....inevitably get boring.

But being able to really have that one woman who loves you and will do anything for you and you anything for her......NOW THAT IS HOT!!

AA

 

So you are plugging your band and comparing sugar babies to strippers?

Okie dokie.

Yes, being in love with your soulmate is great. For the 90% of the people for whom that doesn't happen, there are alternatives beyond settling. And the great thing about the internet is that it has opened up a whole new world of opportunities.

So you have many degrees including physics [though you seem to get confused on that subject easily] you are in fantastic shape, great looking, have your soulmate, lots of money, and life is all rainbows and unicorns. I'm impressed.

... oh yes, and a musician. Just wow.

 

No I am retired from Band things I get together with the guys a few times a year but sugar babies what?

AA

 

THAT I definitely agree with you on!!

One thing for me that always bothered me is yes I am in top physical conditioning but NOT out of vanity but out of SURVIVAL as I have for several decades run a Team of what the very best the U.S. Military has to offer and sometimes I have even Aussie and British SAS Team Members.

A while back I REALLY LIKED this girl who was a bit over weight nothing crazy just 5 foot 4 and 145 lbs.

I thought she was beautiful!!

She thought I thought she was fat!!

Eventually her own insecurities killed the relationship as she just could not accept the fact I was looking for things that went beyond the physical.

AA

 

Self-perceived body image is an odd phenomena; I once had a relationship with a woman who had fabulous - and - I - mean fabulous legs, but she was so convinced in her mind they were 'too thin', and consequently only ever wore trousers (except on the tennis court when we were playing each other, or in club doubles tournaments). Crossing the recreation ground from the courts to the car park with her turned every male head, but she couldn't wait to get into her car and go home and change . . . into trousers. How dare she deny the males of our species the exquisite sight of the best feature (in my book, anyway) of femininity!!

 

Hey I am a KILLER Tennis Player and love to get on the courts EARLY as in the U.S. every town has at least 2 to 6 sets of Tennis Courts with about 5 to 6 courts per Tennis Park.

Plus there are a LOT of clubs!!

AA

 

Anyone for tennis?

 

Anyways I enjoyed playing year round so I was a member of several Tennis Clubs one in Wilbraham Ma. and when I joined and they were nice enough people they sort of immediately assumed anyone who first joins needs a coach so I was there just to join and it was a warm early Oct Day and I was wearing light blue shorts but a white shirt and white sneakers they do not enforce the tennis shoe rules.

Continued....

 

So this young woman about 24 in great shape told me you really next time need to wear all white but for today we will ignore than and you can borrow a racket from.....and I told her..."Oh no I have several of my own rackets in my cars trunk I will be right back.

Continued....

 

She showed me the facilities and as it was early afternoon on a Monday there was no one in the mens locker and shower room so she brought me in and showed me and it was nice and then she said we would hit some balls together.

Continued...

 

So this place had GREAT lighting and nice courts and I was playing along letting her TEACH ME and she said I was good and then she asked me if I would like to play a single set?

Continued...

 

and?

 

I hope you're not fantasising!

 

Now I played multiple sports in High School all Varsity and I have been playing Tennis with both my parents and brother who is also a KILLER since I was 3 years old and being 6 foot 2 inches and all muscle as well as having been able to work out of deal with my high school coaches so I could pitch baseball once every 5 days and then also play Tennis as well I played Quarterback and I was a soccer goaltender as well as a Hockey Goalie and as some of these sports crossed game days I just worked it out because I told the Baseball Coach....Hey.....I don't need to be here but every 5th game and if someone is hurt I will cover and my soccer coach the BIG BABY told me if I did not quit everything else I was off the Team so I told him I AM OFF THE TEAM!!

 

No in fact when I get a chance I will take a pic and send you my Varsity Letters in a pic in Football, Soccer, Bseball, Tennis, Hockey and you will LOVE this last one.....CHESS!! LOL!!

 

Anyways I said Ladies First but she told me it would not be fair as she was going PRO and I am using this racket that only a guy like me with extreme arm speed and strength can even get English on the ball as I am hitting it so hard but I started out slow and she returned it surprisingly well and she gt the first point so it was Love 15