Waitress who made claims of "homophobia" against patron, suspended from job

Discussion in 'Gay & Lesbian Rights' started by sec, Dec 5, 2013.

  1. sec

    sec Well-Known Member

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    if you are stating that it might well be done to exploit the emotions of some into a personal financial gain then you are darn right that I can respect that

    Finally, some honesty in this subsection.

    If hanging a rainbow flag outside of my shop yielded me more business because the patrons thought it actually symbolized something then I'd hang 2 flags

    A fool and their money are soon separated and as a capitalist pig I'm willing to help with as many separations as possible
     
  2. mikezila

    mikezila New Member

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    what does a lesbian look like to you? she doesn't set off my gaydar, just another Pat at work.

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    mikezila New Member

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    thank you for that information on her personal history. i'll be waiting for her to run for a democratic nomination for office in the future.
     
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    Toefoot Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    It was announced she is now no longer employed at the restaurant, both parties mutually agreed to the permanent separation. In my mind after reading all that she has accomplished in her short life....she is a loser in every aspect and has some serious mental defects.


     
  5. Perriquine

    Perriquine On hiatus Past Donor

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    Here's the latest:

    http://nj1015.com/dayna-morales-leaves-job-at-bridgewater-restaurant/

    "On Friday, NBC 4 New York reported that those who made a donation to a PayPal account received an email from PayPal explaining that their donation was being refunded to their account."

    "FULL STATEMENT BY THE GALLOP ASIAN BISTRO ON FACEBOOK:

    The Gallop Asian Bistro has taken seriously the allegations made by Ms. Dayna Morales, and those made against her. Despite news reports to the contrary, this is not a simple, straight-forward matter and we have conducted our own internal investigation. The results of that investigation are inconclusive as to exactly what happened between Ms. Morales and the customers that night. However, in light of the investigation and recent events, both Ms. Morales and Gallop Asian Bistro have made a joint decision that Ms. Morales will no longer continue her employment at our restaurant. We wish her well in the future.
    Overall, this has been an unfortunate incident for Gallop Asian Bistro, our employees, and our customers. We are dedicated to providing excellent Asian cuisine and superior service. We have the utmost faith in our management and staff and we welcome the opportunity to serve our customers."
     
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    Toefoot Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    Whats your opinion on this?

     
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    mikezila New Member

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    wanna bet someone "comes out" with that she's not even really a lesbian? :laughing:
     
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    Perriquine On hiatus Past Donor

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    My opinion is that I need more information. For instance, it's not clear whether the PayPal refunds were instigated by Morales.

    As for her leaving employment at the bistro, my guess (and it's only a guess) is that the bistro decided to play it safe by not firing her outright, but probably presented her with a persuasive case for why they could fire her if she wouldn't just leave on her own.

    Moreover, having people like Morales "cry wolf" just makes things that much more difficult for people who face real discrimination or abuse - people who often don't come forward because they just want to escape from a negative situation without any publicity. Not everyone wants to be turned into some kind of 'poster child' for victims of anti-gay discrimination or abuse.
     
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    Toefoot Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    When I am in the right......absolutely correct, I am not vacant on a issue I started on such a simple issue. Her lack of actions in this context speaks for itself currently. This goes beyond being a lesbian. The young woman has presented herself as unstable.

    We can form opinions as information is released, change opinions as facts present themselves.

     
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    Perriquine On hiatus Past Donor

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    Well, some of us can have a change of opinion. Others just abandon their threads once they have outlived their actual purpose of demonizing gay people as a whole.
     
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    Toefoot Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    I was talking about the lesbian not wanting to talk to any reporters at this point and removing herself from the situation in which she started.

    As far as bashing is concerned, a pecking order evolving for social norms... it will never go away.

     
  12. Micketto

    Micketto New Member Past Donor

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    It was rhetorical.
    I ask what your comment has to do with anything, and your response is "I'm not going to tell you".

    And the words me and my buddies use are no more "made up" than "Homophobia".



    You don't "challenge" me.

    You just say 'I'm allowed to answer" when I challenge you.

    zzz...
     
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    Micketto New Member Past Donor

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    Weren't those laws about gay marriage ?

    Sec's comment was about what people did in their bedroom. Which I think he is quite accurate about.


    And if you read the gays here, they keep arguing that they are 2 very separate things.
     
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    Micketto New Member Past Donor

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    So the waitress is a liar.

    Shocker.



    No wonder she's giving the donations back.
    I'm sure the DNC is trying to find a spot for her as we speak.

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    Micketto New Member Past Donor

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    Have you seen her?

    She's def a lesbian ;)
     
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    Perriquine On hiatus Past Donor

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    It was a flamebait.

    Not the question you asked, and my reply remains that if you're going to flamebait, then your flamebaiting rhetorical questions don't deserve a responsive answer.

    Play that card with someone else. I agree that the word 'homophobia' is overused, I avoid using it myself. As for being made up, I'll agree with that, too. The difference is that the word 'homophobia' wasn't created for the purpose of provoking people or flamebaiting them on internet forums. It was created to describe the extreme and irrational reaction some people have to homosexuality. Unfortunately, that meaning has been all but lost through its casual use as a way to brand people as being anti-gay bigots - whether deserving or not.

    Your madeup word, on the other hand, was clearly crafted for no other purpose than to be insulting. If you can't be respectful when posting here, then maybe you should find a more suitable venue for your vileness.
     
  17. JeffLV

    JeffLV Well-Known Member Past Donor

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    ... no, I was not talking about marriage laws. 10 years ago was when Lawrence v Texas settled, which overturned laws that directly criminalized "what people did in their bedroom. One nice little effect of these laws were the criminal records given to homosexuals, which could be used in courts to deny them custody of their own children. One correction though, it was 14 state laws that were overturned by it. Besides that, of course, it was only a couple years ago that the policy of "what people do in their bedroom" stopped being something that could get you dishonorably discharged from the military.
     
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    i've seen her and i've had worse hit on me.
     

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