Well, maybe we have an answer to the question in the thread title. "The kind that will do danielpalos."
please explain to me.. has anyone ever met a woman who was attracted to a man just because he was nice guy..PM me and I'll flip you a $10 bill... unless you have a good job, money or you got her drunk there is no chance of scoring... I've dated about 100 women in my life time and it's the same story.. sex ain't free and it comes with a price tag..sometimes our life savings..be careful..
My mum was a women of the working Class ,she loved nothing of money for self.Her major achievement was the stopping of backyard abortions .the Right of wemen to hospitials without moral predjudice and free to all.Abortion on demand without intervention by church nor state. My mother was the daughter of a coal miner ,self educated denighed formal education in the Last depression and Great Imperialist War!
There are other angles. Game. Good looking. For the most part you are right as to attracting a marriage scenario. But it doesn't explain the countless women who fall victim to pimps. But yeah, for the average guy you either have to be a poor (*)(*)(*)(*)(*)(*)(*) with lots of game and mind tricks, or you better make some money. The poor nice guy will never get a chick.
This is a lot of nonsense, Charlie. Plenty of women go for personality and material things are secondary. Are you sure you don't mean the women you want are only interested in money? I.e. you are looking at that type of woman..
Back in college, women would try to hook up with me just because I was good-looking and quiet and would actually listen to them. I didn't even have a car most of that time.
Yeah, when you're young everything comes into play before money. But to think money isn't a factor once you hit your 30s and beyond is kind of ridiculous.
best looking, most loyal??? are you talking about women or dogs? this is one of the saddest, most pathetic posts I have ever seen. It smacks of teenage pimply faced nerd fantasy, not a grown man with 'options'. You won't see Brad Pitt sitting around talking like this. You won't even see Bill Gates sitting around talking like this. Truly successful men with 'options' don't whine about how hard it is to find a woman.
money equals stability. if you have been able to get and keep a job, then you have money; doesnt' matter how MUCH money, just that you have proved you can be counted on. if you can't get a job then you don't have money, and it shows you are not stable. Would you have kids with a man that couldn't take care of himself let alone you and your children? Sure people in their teens and twenties care about other things than stability but then we all grow up, more or less, and see reality. So either get married in your twenties before she wises up that you are deadbeat or only date young things that are too immature to realize what a loser you are.
I did go for that guy in the group. The quiet one who didn't have anything to prove, but not so quiet you couldn't get a conversation. I don't know that he had to be really good looking. Just not offensively bad looking. It's a fair point rebels, bad boys and physical attraction fade when you have to pay the bills but possibly more when you have children to raise and when you realise those children are going to emulate what they see. There are plenty of women who can pay their own bills. In fact women seem to be able to pay their bills even when the income is verging on zero. I don't think it's the key issue in choosing a partner.
Can't a female just say "yes, money is a factor"? Nothing funnier than listening to a woman talk. The reason why you all take 20 minutes to say something that would take a man two, is the fact before you reach the end result you have to explain why your wrong isn't a wrong, of course, "when you really think about it". LOL. American women. Got to love them.
To my way of thinking, that's a guy who will do anything to secure a woman's approval; and while there are plenty of women who like guys like that, there are NO women who respect guys like that.
A factor for some women. The reason some women take longer to communicate a point is ... explain it, no he's not getting it, try a different trigger, no he's not getting that, try another approach and maybe the lights will come on...
I'm with a really cool woman right now who fits what you're saying, I just thought injest's post was funny. As to the rest, whatever. A man who actually has women knows they did something wrong as soon as he hears, "1st, you have to understand...".
for sure personality comes into the equation Viv..if a woman thinks yur a chithead down goes the chances of any type of relationship..all I'm saying is being financially stable is a huge factor..I've never met a woman that doesn't like to spend money but I'm sure there might be 1 or 2 out there..
I'm engaged to one of those nice guys. Nice, funny, intelligent, and respectful. That's all I care about. To make my point that money I don't make means (*)(*)(*)(*) to me, keep your Hamilton. It's not to everyone. Never had that problem. Choose wiser. Who the (*)(*)(*)(*) knows. Of course someone had to get political about it. The only approval my man needed was accepting his proposal. He's not nice because he has to clamor to me, he is that way because he's not a worthless (*)(*)(*)(*)(*)(*)canoe. The only guys (and gals) I respect are those that respect everyone.
Not everyone has access to fighter pilot chicks. LOL. I'm sure you can tell from your back and forth with other women on this thread you're the exception, not the rule. I'm glad I met my woman. Took years to find a cool one. They are out there fellas. My advise, just work on you. Eventually one will come along and snatch you up.
sure, men have to have money to attract women...just like women have to be sixteen and a size zero with a forty inch bust to attract men. HEY! under twenty minutes!! stereotypes and men sitting in their parent's basement berating women cause they can't get one...gotta love em..(oh wait..no I don't!)