Most women are not capable to make a first move to a man

This whole thing is more theoretical to me than something I've much done, for reasons not really germane here. But if a guy is oblivious its because he is oblivious, may as well find that out
first thing. Its not going to get better.

 

I suppose I should have added a winkie face after my comment.

 

maybe women sense you are just trouble and stay away and look for a real nice man

 

See thats a problem. Most men dont get body language communication. The good guys you want don't pick up on it. The guys that do are almost always stone cold players.

 

Well I should hope so. Sadly, I don't find women to be all that wise in this area. Sometimes I wonder if the reason in generations past, that families had to allow couples to marry, is because they understand women tend to make bad choices.

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OH Yes! This is unbelievably true. The guys that pick up on 'body language', are nearly always total players. Good nice guys, rarely ever pick up on that. I can't think of a single one, actually. (in my own personal experience).